ADOLESCENT DEVELOPMENT

Adolescence, the years between puberty and adulthood, can be divided into three stages: early adolescence (generally ages 12-13); middle adolescence (ages 14-16), and late adolescence (ages 17-21). In addition to physical changes, adolescents also experience seven key intellectual, psychological and social developmental tasks.

TASKS OF ADOLESCENCE

  1. Learning to feel comfortable with their bodies.

  2. Becoming emotionally independent from their parents.

  3. Learning to think and express themselves conceptually.

  4. Developing a personal set of values: ideals, priorities, concepts of right and wrong.

  5. Forming meaningful relationships with members of both sexes.

  6. Defining their sexual orientation, and deciding whether or not to become sexually active.

  7. Working toward economic stability.

Physical Development

Puberty is defined as the biological changes of adolescence. Physiological growth is generally complete by mid-adolescence; that is, they are close to their adult height and weight and are physically capable of having babies.

Intellectual Development

Most boys and girls enter adolescence perceiving the world in concrete terms; that is, things are either right or wrong and they rarely see beyond the present, which explains why younger teens are unable to consider the long-term consequences of their actions.

By late adolescence, many teens can appreciate subtleties of situations and ideas and are capable of projecting into the future. Their capacity to solve complex problems and to sense what others are thinking has improved. However, they are still relatively inexperience in life and are apt to apply these new skills erratically and may act without thinking.

Emotional Development

One of the most important tasks of adolescence is to become emotionally independent of parents. This transition toward autonomy can take myriad forms; for example, less overt affection, more time spent with friends, contentious behavior and pushing the limits, to name a few. At the same time, adolescents frequently feel conflicted about leaving the safety and security of home. One day they may crave your attention, the next they may act like they don't want to be around you.

Social Development

Until adolescence, a child's life focuses mainly on their family. But when they reach their teens, they begin to form friendships with members of the same sex, the opposite sex, different social and ethnic groups and other adults, like a favorite teacher or youth leader. Eventually, teenagers develop the capacity to form romantic relationships and fall in love.

Not all teenagers enter and exit adolescence at the same age or display the same behaviors. What's more, a teen can be farther along in some areas of development than in others. A 15-year-old may physically resemble an adult but still act very much like a child because it isn't until late adolescence that intellectual, emotional and social development begin to catch up with physical development.

Because adolescents are developing in so many different ways and each one is unique, their behavior can be confusing to parents. You daughter can accuse you of treating her "like a baby" and within the same hour act exasperated that you would expect her to help clear the table.

Source: American Academy of Pediatrics